
Happy New Year's Eve!
As the new year approaches I find myself in Colorado on a snowy afternoon. EJ is asleep next to me for his afternoon nap. Thankfully, he is still napping every day and somedays, like today, I get this precious snuggle time with him. My love for EJ continues to grow and expand every day. I love his innocent and sweet spirit. I love his hugs and kisses. EJ is very loving and tells me every day that he loves me...music to my ears. Lately he’s also been saying that I’m his "favorite." He hasn’t indicated what favorite I am (lunch maker, candy giver, fashion advisor, etc.) but I am his “favorite” something nonetheless. I know this time is fleeting and someday I'll be his least favorite so for now I will lavish in the affection.
As his language developed this year I was constantly amazed at how he sees the world. This has also reminded how powerful our words can be. I have written tens of thousands of words this fall on my dissertation and nothing has been as humbling as EJ putting me in time out for saying the naughty word…”stupid.” I sure must think a lot of things are stupid because I go to time out on a daily basis for saying it.
It’s quite humbling to be put in time out for language use, after all, I am a communication professional. I have learned to be careful with what I say because EJ is always listening…and then repeating. It’s not just about EJ listening, though. The truth is that I should always be careful how I use my words. Proverbs 16:24 says, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” While I always want to use gracious words, I find that often fall short of that goal. I’m working hard on it though because Proverbs also says that gracious words promote instruction (16:2). As EJ’s primary educator right now I need to communicate with grace, wisdom and intelligence. That’s my goal in the coming year—to be a better communicator and thus a better educator—in my home and at work. Whatever goals or ideas you have in mind for 2011, I wish you the best as you journey towards completing them.
Happy New Year!


























